A family trip adds HVAC load (rear passengers, screen, ‘it’s hot’) and a need for toilets and food at the same halt as the gun. That pushes you toward plaza and mall DC even when a lonely 60 kW pole would be faster to reach. EV Grids’ food-nearby option exists for this. Use it. A 12-minute faster stall with no bathroom is not faster with a six-year-old.
Charge while you eat, not after. Target 80% and walk back. Overnight hotels with a known AC or DC point change the next morning’s start SOC more than any lunch stop. Overnight mode in the planner biases lodging-adjacent sites when you will sleep on the road.
Share the trip link with whoever is not driving. Arguments about ‘there is a charger 2 km that way’ should be settled on the itinerary, not in the third row. Keep the same 20% reserve you would keep solo; children do not make physics kinder.